
As runners we all get out on the roads for different reasons. Some of us do it to lose weight, to stay in shape, to unwind, to reduce stress, etc. But, there are some people who run to help others. In 2009, I ran the Boston Marathon as part of the Dana Farber Marathon Challenge (DFMC) Team. I can honestly say that it was the most rewarding run of my life and one I will never forget. I was obviously being physically challenged on race day. What was more challenging was getting up the nerve to go out and ask people to support my run with their hard earned cash. I am proud to say I successfully met the challenge on both counts.
Most of people who know me would say that I am a very outgoing person. I can engage strangers in conversation and make friends easily. However, this is the person I force myself to be in order to be good in my job and to overcome a very strong sense of introversion. My career choice forces me to speak in public forums and to meet new people daily in my real estate negotiations. But it has always been hard for me. I also get up on stage to sing, dance and act in front of an audience which is not something you would expect from someone who is shy by nature. Each of these things have helped me overcome my shyness over the years even though inside I am often tied up in knots. So, when I signed up for the DFMC Team, I knew my biggest challenge would be going out and raising money.
As strange as it may seem, the marathon race itself was not the challenge I was most worried about. I knew I could run 26.2 miles. I had done it five times before. If there was any trepidation about the race it was just some nerves about running what some runners feel is the pinnacle of all marathons -- Boston. I knew that those nerves would dissipate once I started running. When I toed the starting line in Hopkinton, I knew I had done all that I could do to prepare myself physically and there would be no need to look back on it. All I could do when the starter's pistol rang out was run my race and see what happened.
The challenge that I felt most anxious about was the challenge to raise at least the minimum required by DFMC. I was not sure I would be able to ask people for money. What helped me get over the anxiety and set up a program to help me achieve my fundraising goal was the thought that my effort could potentially help Dana Farber find a cure for cancer. Having lost loved ones and friends to this disease, I knew I had to overcome my fear and meet the challenge. It didn't matter how uncomfortable it made me feel to ask friends, family, business associates and even strangers to support my run. I was doing it for those who we have lost and for those who have survived. That higher purpose made it easier to do.
As I crossed the finish line and celebrated achieving one of my life's goals, I actually felt more pride about having overcome my own shy nature and exceeding my fundraising goal. There I was walking through the crowds past the finish line and feeling an utter sense of joy. I had accepted what for me was a risky proposition and somehow found the strength to endure the fear and exceeded my goal. As I look back on it now, I find that the numbers really don't matter. Instead, I just feel a sense of pride that comes from doing something for a greater purpose and having to overcome my own innate nature to do it.
I am nothing more than a runner who knows his limits but wants to continually challenge them.
Apr. 3 – 9.20 miles (1:24:33, 9:13 pace)
Apr. 4 – 6.70 miles (1:02:59, 9:24 pace)
Apr. 5 – 3.50 miles (27:25, 7:50 pace) – Speed Work
Apr. 7 – 6.20 miles (49:48, 8:02 pace) – Tempo Run
Apr. 8 – 6.20 miles (56:33, 9:07 pace)
Apr. 9 – 9.40 miles (1:25:43, 9:07 pace)
Apr. 10 – 10.10 miles (1:34:26, 9:16 pace)
Apr. 11 – 6.20 miles (56:36, 9:08 pace)
Apr. 12 – 3.50 miles (27:24, 7:50 pace) – Speed Work
Apr. 14 – 6.20 miles (49:52 8:02 pace) – Tempo Run
Apr. 15 – 6.30 miles (55:54, 8:53 pace)
Apr. 16 – 10.20 miles (1:30:33, 8:53 pace)
Total Miles: 83.70 miles
2011 YTD Miles: 441.6 miles