Saturday, June 28, 2014

Lessons Learned From Being a Runner

In 2009 several running organizations got together to establish National Running Day.  It occurs the first Wednesday in June every year now.  It is the day that we runners can declare our passion for the sport that keeps us healthy and in my case sane.  It is also a day that all runners across the globe can go out for a run to celebrate this day.  As a runner it is our obligation to celebrate our sport by planning and going out for a  run, infecting a friend with our passion for running, signing up for a race, or even setting a new running goal for ourselves. I have embraced this challenge and plan to celebrate it every year from now on.

This past National Running Day I went out for a short run as part of my participation in the Runner's World Run Streak challenge.  It was my 10th consecutive run of the streak that started on May 26th and ends on the 4th of July.  I have never run consecutive days without a break since I started running back in 1985.  I thought it would be interesting to see how I would do especially given that I have been recovering from a hamstring injury.  As I ran that day, it dawned on me how much my running has taught me over the years.  I wanted to share with you what I have learned and hope that you have found similar truths during your runs.

The most important lesson that running has taught me is that there is always going to be someone faster, more seasoned or who has run more races than me.  I now know that comparing myself to other runners is a pointless exercise.  Measuring my ability against someone else’s is unfair and truly a waste of my time.  All runners (including me) have a tendency to make these evaluations.  The truth is that all I or any other runner can do is the best that we can do on any given day whether it is in a race or just a training run.  I no longer compare myself to anyone.  Rather I focus on being the best possible runner I can be and try to always run my own race. 

I have always considered my runs to be my personal time.  It is the only time during the day where I get to reflect  and focus just on what I want to focus on.  It is the perfect time for me to think without a lot of distractions.  I sincerely enjoy the sweat and labored breathing that comes with each run.  I find that it is the time where I can release pent up frustrations, tensions and explore those esoteric ideas that help me improve who I am with my family and friends.  I try to enjoy the silence when I can because as we all know there is just too much noise in the world around us.  Sometimes it is just nice to listen to the sound of your my own breathing and foot falls on the pavement.  Most importantly, I know that when I am finished with my run that I am much happier and ready to take on whatever comes my way.

Running has taught me that to be good at anything, I have to put in the time and effort.  So many people are looking for the easy way to success.  I have found that success is never going to come easy.  Without strong effort and dedication you will remain stagnant.  I know that anything worthwhile in life is worth working hard for.  Sometimes the work to get there is not fun as anyone who has trained for a marathon can attest to.  But I can assure you that it is always worth the effort.   I learned that when things don't work out as planned that it is not a sign of failure but rather just a part of the process to get me to where I am going.  Every failure is just a chance to improve.

Which brings me to another important lesson that running has taught me.  No matter how hard I work and how well prepared I am, disappointments will happen.  This is a tough lesson and one that I still struggle with daily.  I have to constantly remind myself that finish times are just times. The fact that I started a run or race is the only way that I can ever reach the finish line.  My finishing time does not hold the power over me.  I do.  And if this year's Boston Marathon did anything for me it solidified that the most gratifying experiences in life usually come as a result of enduring the most painful trials.  And that if I can just focus on putting one foot in front of the other, I will eventually make it to the finish line which is an accomplishment to be proud of every time.

Lastly,  I have learned from running that I can do anything I set my mind to.  Over the years I have said, "I can't run that far" or "I can't train like that" only to prove myself wrong.  I now know that I can run new race distances, challenging relays, run faster, and most importantly find ways to actually become a better runner despite my advancing age.  I also have seen how running makes me stronger in all capacities of my life both mentally and physically.  Best of all, I know that I can keep this up for as long as I live.  Being number one is not important to me.  It is more important to know that with practice, patience and persistence, I can achieve what I set out to do whether it is running or in my personal and business life.

As I have said many times before, running is a way of life for me.  It is a huge part of the person I have become since setting out on the road so many years ago.  My running life has allowed me to be part of a beautiful community of people who come together as one because we all love this crazy sport.  I have made so many new friends through running.  They have all had a profound and positive impact on my life.  Each of them has shown me that although I may have not been born a runner, I have built myself into one over time.  And they accept me for who I am and don't care how fast or how far I can run.  They just enjoy the camaraderie that comes with a shared experience.

I know that am a bit of a zealot now.  Some people may even tire of my obsession.  That is o.k.  because running has shown me that  I can have anything I want and that I can be happy reaching for my own goals in life.   I can rest comfortably knowing that there is no finish line in life.  So I will just enjoy the ride while it lasts.  So I encourage you to get on the road because I know you will find similar lessons if you just let running become a part of who you are too.

June 9 – 5.20 miles (47:55, 9:14 pace)
June 10 – 3.10 miles (27:42, 8:55 pace)
June 11 – 5.60 miles (51:35, 9:13 pace)
June 12 – 6.20 miles (59:43, 9:38 pace)
June 13 – 4.20 miles (39:30, 9:23 pace)
June 14 – 8.30 miles (1:18:55, 9:41 pace)
June 15 – 7.20 miles (1:08:28, 9:31 pace)
June 16 – 2.20 miles (20:15, 9:14 pace)
June 17 – 2.40 miles (22:40, 9:27 pace)
June 18 – 2.10 miles (21:55, 10:32 pace)
June 19 – 5.10 miles (46:23, 9:05 pace)
June 20 – 5.20 miles (45:55, 8:49 pace)
June 21 – 9.20 miles (1:24:48, 9:14 pace)
June 22 – 6.20 miles (58:12, 9:23 pace)

Total Miles:  72.2 miles

2014 Total Miles:  1,044.3 miles

2 comments:

Mom & Dad said...

Great post as always. The past few have been outstanding starting with your Boston experience, which was amazing, to through the hamstring lesson, training in the heat and your obsession with running. We are very proud of you and look forward to further musings.

Ted Frumkin said...

Since the Boston Race, I have been very reflective. Not sure why. Perhaps it was because I was afraid I was going to have to stop or seriously curtail my running. The good news is that I am almost fully recovered and don't have to stop running.